You've got to really want it. If you don't really want it, it'll never happen.
Mental preparation is key. You've got to visualise the whole thing, every eventuality. Don't get bogged down in trying to memorise every different angle you'll never do it. Too many ways it could go. Prepare; don't over prepare.
This isn't going to be easy. However far in advance you start, by the time the last week ticks down your stomach will be in knots; it'll be difficult to keep food down. Try but don't force it down: enough to keep you going. Any more will leave you sick.
In the days leading up, make sure you get the right advice. Talk to your mentors, get the right coaching. It's important not to get inside your own head too much. Even just chatting with friends to distract yourself. People might try and change or plans, or get over-exited and give too much encouragement. Don't let yourself get over-confident. This going to be hard and it's going to hurt. A lot.
When it comes down to it. Go with the obvious plays first. They've been used time and time again. There's a reason for that. If she gets hysterical, that's perfect. Let her build up steam then cut her down. If she tried logic that will be tough. Remember this isn't about pro versus con; this is a fight for your life. Stay strong, hear her out then make it clear, make it final and go.
This is how you break up with some one.
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